Can a Saint Exist in this World?Can anyone on earth today achieve the following while living the life of a normal person, such as having a family, go to work, need to eat and invest, etc?
1. turns the other cheek when slapped;
2. forgives and forgets all wrongs done to him;
3. get hurt over and over again and does not react;4. does not destroy any kind of life;
5. overcomes the temptation of sex;
6. gets along with everyone around him;
7. trusts everything and everyone;
8. never utter a word that hurts someone; etc.
I have never seen or met one, or ever read of one, besides of course saints like Buddha and Jesus. Those like Mother Teresa were more like cut off from the normal lifestyle that I am talking about. Consider some scenarios:
1. If someone attacks you and your family with the intention of causing physical harm, would you be so saintly as to let him do it without trying to protect yourself and your family?
2. If a dog attacks you and the only way to save your own life is to kill the dog, would you do it?
3. If you are dying from hunger, would you steal some food if that is the only way to stay alive?
My conclusion is that
such a state cannot be achieved by any human being on earth. Our mind is so powerful that it is difficult to forget wrongs, unless we have dementia. A person who is bullied again and again and does not do something to try and remove the situation out of his life cannot be a saint. We would say this person is stupid, mad or of low IQ.
If you happen to be one who believe that you can find a place on earth where everything and everyone is perfect (with all the above-mentioned 8 characteristics), I can tell you very surely that you are wrong. You cannot escape from reality. Some people try to escape by becoming a nun or monk. But we have read of the many shocking stories of monks who raped other monks or nuns, molest children, and also of nuns who are lesbians, etc. Some become hermits. Some withdraw themselves from society and stay at home.
A monastery or nunnery may not be such a perfect place you imagine it to be. The same thing can be said of other places of worship. Just because a person labels himself or herself with some spiritual titles likes ‘pastor’, ‘preacher’ does not mean that he is any better than a normal person.
So remember,
live in the reality of the harsh situation on this earth where there are thieves, robbers, rapists, bullies, hunger, deaths, grudges, quarrels, back-stabbing, etc. Be as good as you are, by should the need arises for you to react, do so accordingly, hopefully without breaking any laws in the country you are in. In school, people compete for grades, and some resort to cheating and dirty tactics to get what they want. In the working world I see people doing all kind despicable acts just to gain an advantage over others to get themselves promoted, or just to cause all kinds of troubles for others. Some are given authority over others, and they abuse their authority for personal gains and to grant favors to those they like.
How far you need to or wish to go to protect yourself and your loved ones and friends is your choice. It also depends on how sensitive your conscience is. It is a jungle out there, believe me.
Saints in History
As for the saints mentioned in history, I have my doubts. Why is it that today we do not have such people? Why don’t we have someone like Buddha or Jesus? It makes me suspect that these holy men could have been aliens who came to earth to influence mankind. Why are there no holy men who can perform miracles today? Why did these people exist when there were no technology like cameras, videocam, Youtube, etc to capture them on record? In fact, ever since the camera was invented in 1840, there had not been many reports of holy men or people who claim to wrought miracles. It would make sense to suspect that the aliens know that we have the technology to capture them today and analyze them should they come today and claim to be god.